Halo slipping?

“The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God.” – C. S. Lewis

For a few years, my family was just three of us: my two adolescent daughters and me. So, one of those years I bought a box of Hallmark cards with a graphic of these three angels, representing our trio. One of them, you see, has her eyes open, her feet askew, and her halo slipping. We sent the cards out to our friends and family.

A few years later, one of my daughters bought the ceramic depiction of that card as you see above. We all laughed and remembered those days of just the three of us. As we talked, we confessed that, when we sent out those cards, we each felt we were the angel with the slipped halo. Surprised? Then let me ask: Which of the three angels do you identify with?

Most of us know we don’t measure up to God’s standard. We aren’t conforming to his perfect plan. We have a bit of rebellion in us. Or we just can’t get it together. It’s good that we see that! It’s that acknowledgement that will compel us to reach out to Jesus, the baby of Christmas, the Savior of the world, to ask him to forgive our sins and make us righteous and pure in his sight.

He will do that, if we ask. It’s why he came.

Corrie ten Boom said it this way: “Who can add to Christmas? The perfect motive is that God so loved the world. The perfect gift is that he gave his only Son. The only requirement is to believe in him. The reward of faith is that you shall have everlasting life.”

“Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.” – Luke 2:14

Feeling the joy?

“Jesus was God and man in one person, that God and man might be happy together again.” -George Whitefield

I was feeling down. I won’t go into details, but a weary sadness had settled in.

On my way back home from an errand, it occurred to me that joy was a fruit of the Holy Spirit in my life. Maybe he could help. So, I began talking to him, telling him that I was sad. Immediately it occurred to me that I should sing Joy to the World. So I sang it all the way home. And I thought about the words: Let earth receive her king. Let every heart prepare him room. My heart felt a little lighter.

Then I saw the accumulated snow/ice at the end of my driveway and realized I’d better get that out of there before it froze again. So I grabbed a shovel and started to work. Ten minutes later, I saw our neighbor coming across the yard saying, “Let me do that.” He took the shovel and finished the job. But, the best part was that he was dressed in a red sweatshirt with brightly colored ornaments – the kind of shirt that made me smile.

I went in the house to wrap Christmas gifts, thinking of the people I love and the gifts I want them to have. Happy thoughts moved in. Joy had returned.

There is joy in Christmas, but I had lost it. A little conversation with the Holy Spirit brought it back. All I had to do was ask, listen, and do what he said. I love how he works – through music, neighbors, or silly sweatshirts. He will do it for you, too. He doesn’t make all our troubles go away, but he does bring joy in the middle of them – if we ask, if we let him.

Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.” – John 16:24b

The View from Above

“God wants us to choose to love him freely, even when that choice involves pain.” – Philip Yancey

Why is life so hard? What have I done to deserve this? Why doesn’t God do something?

Job asked those questions, too. At the beginning of his story he had it all. Then everything began to fall apart. He lost his wealth, his children, and, finally, his health. His friends insisted God wouldn’t be doing this to him if he hadn’t sinned. If he would just admit his sin, everything would be OK.

So Job began to pray asking what he had done wrong and what he could do to appease God and get the pain to stop. No answer. What he doesn’t know is that God didn’t do any of this to him. Satan did – with God’s permission. It was not punishment, it was a test to see if he would trust and serve God even when things didn’t go his way.

There are some standard take-aways from Job’s story including that God doesn’t always protect us from the evil in this world and that trouble isn’t always (maybe seldom actually) a punishment for sin.

Those are good points, but, in my mind, the greatest lesson from Job’s story is this: Though others criticized, condemned, and shamed him, it is what God said about him that mattered. And God said he was blameless and upright.

When we choose to trust Jesus with our lives, God sees us as one of his beloved children. When we focus too much on what others think of us, or what Satan says about us, maybe the story of Job will remind us to ask God what he thinks*. That’s all that matters really.

” . . . you are precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you (Isaiah 43:4a)

*Hint: He tells us in his word.

This Present Moment

“Leave the broken, irreversible past in God’s hands, and step out into the invincible future with him.” – Oswald Chambers

I heard someone say, “A truly happy person is someone who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.” Can we live fully in the present moment even it’s not what we planned? Do we spend too much time in the past or the future and miss engaging with the now? What can we do to change that?

The Past

We can all look at our past and find things we don’t like. Things we said. Things we did. Things that happened to us that changed the trajectory of our lives: Hurts, rejection, unresolved relationships.

Wise counselors tell us to acknowledge that these things are painful, but unchangeable. We can’t redo life. We can, though, forgive those who have hurt us. And we can confess our own mistakes and sins and receive God’s forgiveness. When we do that, we will feel that a weight has been taken away and this present life is refreshed.

The Future

When we look ahead, we can fall into worry far too easily, anticipating what could possibly happen that will be hard. And there will be those things. But that’s what the life of faith is all about: Trusting God even when we don’t understand. Trusting him because we know his character is good, kind, loving, powerful, just. The future is full of his promises, his presence, and his protection. Let’s choose to believe that!

The Present

When we let go of the past and trust God for the future, we will be fully alive to today. We can count on it!

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” – Romans 15:13